How People Use Kik As An Adult Dating App
There are tens of thousands, if not millions of dating sites and apps out there. With more apps appearing each and every day, such as OKCupid and Tinder, to name a few. Seeing an app like Kik getting a lot of publicity for dating is kind of new. But why so? What exactly is Kik, and how is it being used as a dating site?
What is Kik
Tons of people are utilizing Kik as a dating app, with it growing more and more popular to hook up with people while utilizing it. The funny part about it is that Kik is in no way a dating app. Or at least, it was never designed or intended to be such.
Kik was actually designed to be a simple messaging app. Similar to Skype, but better. This app would allow you to call and contact friends and family without having to use data, as well as being more user-friendly, and grew on that alone for a while. And then everything changed.
Tons of people have been finding Kik as a great way to contact people for online and offline sexual favors or send nudes. In fact, it has a large following for being a site for hookups. So how exactly can you find people to date on Kik? Well, it is a lot more intricate than you may have thought.
How Can you Find a Great Date on Kik?
Because Kik is not an actual dating app, there is nothing that automatically matches you to other people. As a result, you are pretty much floating in a pool of anonymity. You can create as many accounts as you want, and you do not need to have your phone number ready, so it is an app that is very easy to game.
That said, the way you get anyone to follow you is to get people outside of the app to #KikMe. What that means is you post your username, and people will go to the app and add you from there. This is a great thing for people who might want to contact people for sexual favors but might not want their name or number to be plastered online.
I have noticed that many people who have specific fetishes use this often as a way to stay anonymous. When you have a fetish, the last thing that you really want is to be found out. Kik helps with that as you never need to input your name.
So what you are going to want to do is find people to message you on Kik by soliciting them from other social media sites. People often use Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook as places to get people to follow them. This is a good way to get followers, but only if you have a social media following, to begin with.
Other people are posting their usernames on these sites as well. So if you are interested in someone based on their social media account, you can start to follow them via Kik. Usually, when someone posts their username, they are searching for someone to talk to, or even get a little freaky with.
So start off small. Talk to them and get to know who they are and what they like. Not only does this ease you into finding a potential date, but it also ensures that you are not connecting with crazy. Talking online also lets down a lot of barriers, so you are more likely to see certain parts of someone that you may never have seen from them if you talked face to face.
After you talk to them, slowly drop hints, that way you and then may eventually decide to start dating, either long distance or close by.
Are There Any Risks From Using Kik?
There is a fair amount, but you are going to have to be careful as a result. For instance, since everything is anonymous, you have the possibility of getting catfished. That is when the person soliciting you for sex lies about how they look in their profile or picture in order to get a date, money, or stuff from you. So be careful about that if you are planning on using Kik.
Kik is probably something that you would not want to use if you are underage, or if you are not looking for something too sexual. This is because it is very common to get dickpics and the like if you inadvertently use the wrong hashtag on social media. So if you do not want to see the penises of complete strangers, you should use it warily.
A Few Tips to Consider
Do not be creepy. I know you are using the app for dating or potentially sexual reasons, but nobody likes it when the creep factor is turned up to 11. Tone it down a bit. What you are going to want to do is talk to them as if they are human beings, because they are.
While if you are in a bar, you might be more than willing to go from 0 to 10 more quickly, online that does not translate well. So talking to the other person and getting to know more about them is a great way to win a date. Slowing building your way into a relationship is far more stable in the long run.
Getting a date on Kik does not have to be hard, but it is going to be far harder than getting one on a renown dating website due to the lacking of certain features. However, with a little hard work, you should be able to get a date with an awesome person.